|
|
Post by brucewayne on Jun 17, 2014 20:36:42 GMT -6
How can i throw out somebody from the house?...long story short & not getting into details (family member) i need ideas on this but i cant use the Cops, Lawyers or Violence. I need to do this in a very smart way. Its not my house. The only thing i have thought of is driving her crazy till she doesnt wanna live here anymore.
any ideas?
|
|
|
|
Post by JR on Jun 17, 2014 20:59:30 GMT -6
This sounds like a little personal and why don't you just ask them to leave?
JR
|
|
|
|
Post by alleyoop on Jun 17, 2014 21:36:58 GMT -6
Unless they leave on their own it is very hard to get someone evicted after they have been living with someone for awhile that is the law.
Alleyoop
|
|
|
|
Post by brucewayne on Jun 18, 2014 0:14:41 GMT -6
This sounds like a little personal and why don't you just ask them to leave? JR wish it was that easy, im not the owner of the house, i have to find a way to make her leave on her own will |
|
|
|
Post by fflintstone on Jun 18, 2014 13:45:04 GMT -6
Well,I don't know if this idea will help ,but it may give you a new train of thought---we used to tie a corn shuck to a chicken's tail,and it drove them mad,with the sound of something rustling, following them...don't know if you can get an idea from this but it used to amuse us when we were kids----that ol chicken would hear the rustling right close behind and would panic and tear out around the chicken yard for a few circles and then stop to listen,and when they heard no sound,they took one step and the rustling would start again and they would panic again and run like crazy--it's the unknown ,that scares you ,I guess..oh,no charge for the idea-heh
|
|
|
|
Post by brucewayne on Jun 18, 2014 18:59:42 GMT -6
Well,I don't know if this idea will help ,but it may give you a new train of thought---we used to tie a corn shuck to a chicken's tail,and it drove them mad,with the sound of something rustling, following them...don't know if you can get an idea from this but it used to amuse us when we were kids----that ol chicken would hear the rustling right close behind and would panic and tear out around the chicken yard for a few circles and then stop to listen,and when they heard no sound,they took one step and the rustling would start again and they would panic again and run like crazy--it's the unknown ,that scares you ,I guess..oh,no charge for the idea-heh in laymans terms, drive her mad till she wants to leave, yeah thats the only idea i have. thats kinda working but slowly, i guess i have to step it up in order to speed up her leaving |
|
Junior
Currently Offline
Posts: 244
A+'s: 2
Joined: Jul 5, 2011 22:26:29 GMT -6
|
Post by Luke on Jun 25, 2014 13:19:39 GMT -6
if she is a family member, why do you have to throw her out of the house,that is not even yours. is she your blood sister? or what?...is it about financial issues? does she have a job? talk it over with her, if she find a job maybe you and her can work together to make life easy, i betya if she win the lotto you'll even prepare her a breakfast in bed.im sure about that.
good luck...communication is the key,,,not MONEY!!
|
|
|
|
Post by brucewayne on Jun 25, 2014 22:13:29 GMT -6
if she is a family member, why do you have to throw her out of the house,that is not even yours. is she your blood sister? or what?...is it about financial issues? does she have a job? talk it over with her, if she find a job maybe you and her can work together to make life easy, i betya if she win the lotto you'll even prepare her a breakfast in bed.im sure about that. good luck...communication is the key,,,not MONEY!! ive told her to get a job many times but she hasnt worked for 4 years straight, thats is not right! |
|
|
|
Post by wolfhound on Jun 26, 2014 5:06:54 GMT -6
As JR says, this is a personal matter and better addressed to a lawyer, therapist, or your Minister than here.
|
|
|
|
Post by fflintstone on Jun 26, 2014 13:00:50 GMT -6
I think you are on to something ,wolfhound---I think old brucewayne speaks with tongue in cheek--as it were-lol--happy trails,fflintstone
|
|
|
|
Post by brucewayne on Jun 26, 2014 14:34:06 GMT -6
Tongue in cheek? nope. its not a joke...i wish i was playing around and wish i had a 'normal' sister
|
|
|
|
Post by fflintstone on Jun 26, 2014 21:39:16 GMT -6
Tongue in cheek? nope. its not a joke...i wish i was playing around and wish i had a 'normal' sister Sigh----Oh,I too,wish you did--but we ,here at this forum are a little lacking on social services---mainly ,we tend to our scooters,and that is enough frustration --I do hope you work it out --good luck |
|
New Student
Currently Offline
Posts: 29 
A+'s: 1
Joined: Aug 31, 2014 16:44:25 GMT -6
|
Post by poppawelee on Aug 31, 2014 18:28:16 GMT -6
brucewayne I hope things have improved between you and your sibling. if not and with all due respect I'm hoping you'll take a different road than deviant shenanigans designed to drive her from the house. sometimes mental health is more fragile than we realize, and there is also the old "do unto others as you would have others do unto you" to consider. I hate to sound like an Oprah Soccer Mom type but I'd bet dollars to donuts you can find some really good advice on Dr. Phil's website. He is not to everyone's taste but he does seem to provide mature insight based on a solid education, life experience and the hard work of a huge staff. people do not arrive where they are overnight, it's a lifetime filled with all sorts of things that makes us who and where we are today. maybe if you search around on Dr. Phil's site you'll find a way to help your sister onto a better and more productive path. I wish you both the best of luck.
|
|
|
|
Post by alleyoop on Sept 1, 2014 16:24:18 GMT -6
Big problem is She Owns the House she can throw you out. If your paying the bills then you get out and find a different place. To pay the bills she will have to get a job.
|
|
New Student
Currently Offline
Posts: 43
A+'s: 5
Joined: Aug 20, 2014 8:58:25 GMT -6
|
Post by rks on Sept 2, 2014 16:23:29 GMT -6
How can i throw out somebody from the house?...long story short & not getting into details (family member) i need ideas on this but i cant use the Cops, Lawyers or Violence. I need to do this in a very smart way. Its not my house. The only thing i have thought of is driving her crazy till she doesnt wanna live here anymore. any ideas? Since it is her house.....I have an idea for you.....put on your ' big boy pants'....and go find your own place to live. |
|
..BAD TO THE BONE..
